Fingers crossed then!
Hopefully you won't have to wait for too long. Have you come across The Freedom Programme? Offers help with living /dealing with 'difficult men'. I am having counselling at the moment arranged through them. Emotional, verbal and financial abuse are very harmful. I can let you have the titles of some books that have helped me if you are interested.
This is a place for me, to try and make sense of my world, and my place in it. My family and friends do not know about this, I need some privacy, peace and freedom.Please don' t leave unkind comments, I have enough of that in 'real life'.